In this episode of the Queer Divorce Club podcast featuring Ashmeeta Madhav, resilience and grief support advocate, and founder of Growth StoryHub. Ashmeeta shares her journey of navigating divorce at a young age, remarriage, and the profound loss of her second husband to a terminal illness, all while raising young children. Through her own experience, Ashmeeta recognized the need for support in processing grief, especially in the context of divorce, where it often goes unaddressed. She offers insights into the multifaceted emotions of grief, strategies for self-compassion, and navigating the process of rebuilding amidst loss. Ashmeeta empowers listeners to honor their intuition, set boundaries, and extend themselves the compassion they deserve during times of grief.

Discover invaluable insights in this episode of the Queer Divorce Club, as Tera sits down with attorney and divorce coach, Amy Neilsen. With her wealth of experience supporting couples through divorce, Amy shares practical tips on navigating a peaceful divorce process and maintaining post-divorce harmony while co-parenting. Drawing from her own journey as a queer divorcee, Amy offers valuable advice on prioritizing your own well-being during the divorce process and ensuring that your needs are met. Tune in as Amy guides us through a process of self-discovery, helping us identify and communicate our needs effectively while navigating the complexities of divorce.

In this episode, we're thrilled to introduce our first guest of the year, Lisa Johnson, co-founder of Been There Got Out, a high conflict divorce coach, and certified domestic violence advocate. Lisa expertly navigates the complexities of supporting children through a high conflict divorce, shedding light on the profound impact that conflict during divorce can have on kids. Throughout our conversation, Lisa shares invaluable strategies for parents facing this challenging terrain, offering insights into creating a safe and supportive environment for children amidst turmoil. Tune in as Lisa provides actionable advice on supporting kids, navigating parenting time with an unstable or unsafe parent, and fostering a secure home environment. Join us as we delve into the essential topic of guiding children through the challenges of divorce with compassion and resilience.

In this episode of the Queer Divorce Club, Tera provides an update on the club's progress and shares insights gleaned from her own divorce and rebuilding journey in 2023. Those lessons include how self-compassion has been such an asset to her and other lessons about how to function post divorce with kids.

In this episode of the Queer Divorce Club, join us in a candid conversation with Dr. Joe Kort, a distinguished psychotherapist and the founder of The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health in Southeast Michigan. Dr. Kort specializes in working with individuals, particularly men, who grapple with the realization of their gay identity while navigating straight marriages. We delve into the challenges of coming out within a marriage, the complexities of remaining in a marriage as a queer individual, and the arduous journey of making it through divorce. Dr. Kort aptly describes the process as brutal, and together, we explore strategies to navigate some of the toughest moments during this transformative period. Join us for insights, resilience, and a discussion about the positive destination that can be reached through the challenges of divorce and coming out.

In this episode of the Queer Divorce Club, we delve into the profound insights of Matthew Phifer, a therapist, speaker, and trainer, specializing in navigating toxic relationships, narcissism, trauma, and emotional abuse. Tera and Matthew focus on the challenging terrain of co-parenting with a toxic ex, stabilizing both yourself and your children in the aftermath of divorce, and healing following a relationship with a narcissist. Matthew shares invaluable tips on establishing boundaries and cultivating a healthier post-divorce life, especially when dealing with an abusive ex-partner. His expertise sheds light on crucial aspects of post-divorce recovery, offering listeners practical guidance and a deeper understanding of the complexities involved. Tune in for a wealth of wisdom and actionable advice from Matthew Phifer on creating a more stable and empowered life after divorce.

In this episode of the Queer Divorce Club Podcast, I had the privilege of conversing with Samantha Fox, a sexuality and curiosity coach specializing in Late Bloomers. Our discussion delves into the unique experiences of coming out later in life, exploring its profound effects on personal identity, family dynamics, and the journey to finding authenticity for late bloomers. Drawing from her own journey as a late bloomer, Sam shared valuable insights that I connected with, and I'm certain you will too. Sam also underscores the importance of community support as you navigate the intricacies of coming out and divorce. Join us for an insightful conversation that will resonate with anyone on a similar path.

In this episode of the Queer Divorce Club, we deep dive into the world of co-parenting. Tera is joined for a second episode with Nina Raff, a therapist who specializes in divorce and co-parenting. Nina offers invaluable guidance on navigating post-divorce parenting. Learn how to maintain a healthy co-parenting relationship with your ex, support your children through the challenges of divorce, and manage your own feelings of guilt. Nina's insights provide a wealth of support and information for parents on their divorce journey.

In this episode, Tera has the privilege of speaking with Jonelle Tunney, a licensed professional counselor, transwoman, and divorcee, who generously shares her personal journey of transitioning while navigating the challenging terrain of divorce. Jonelle's story is a poignant narrative of resilience and growth.

During the conversation, Jonelle offers a wealth of insights drawn from her experiences of simultaneously managing significant life transitions over the past five years. She candidly discusses the lessons she's learned, both from her transition and her divorce, shedding light on what worked for her and what didn't. Additionally, Jonelle opens up about her co-parenting journey with her ex-wife, providing valuable perspectives and guidance.

Jonelle's journey is filled with invaluable gems of wisdom, and I'm excited to share her story with you.

In this episode, I'm excited to have a conversation with Nina Raff, an experienced psychotherapist specializing in collaborative divorce and the discernment process. Her expertise shines as she shares invaluable insights on key aspects of divorce.

Throughout our discussion, Nina offers valuable advice on choosing the right divorce approach, recognizing signs it's time for divorce, and communicating this transition to your children. We also delve into challenges faced by queer divorcees and how to make informed decisions throughout the process. Nina's perspective on divorce as a reconfiguration of family dynamics is eye-opening, emphasizing that divorce is a choice, not a failure. By working together with our ex-partners, we can create a solid foundation for post-divorce life. Keep listening for insights to guide you through your divorce process.

In this episode, Tera has the privilege of connecting with the wonderful Cariann Moore as she bravely shares her journey through the intricate phase following her divorce, often referred to as the "messy middle." Through her vulnerability, Cariann opens up about her personal experience during this challenging period and offers profound insights into her healing process. We delve into the strategies she employed to navigate the messy middle during the post-divorce rebuilding stage and discuss how others can find their own paths to healing.

The "messy middle" is a shared experience after divorce, and Cariann's wisdom provides invaluable guidance on managing its complexities. While there's no one-size-fits-all approach, I hope that by listening to her story, you'll grant yourself the grace needed for your own healing journey.

In this compelling episode of the Queer Divorce Club, I had the privilege of engaging in a meaningful conversation with Dr. Lynda Spann, the esteemed founder of the Lesbian Couples Institute. We delved into the crucial topic of recognizing red flags in relationships and navigating the difficult decision of when to call it quits or persevere to strengthen the marriage. Additionally, we explored the concept of consciously uncoupling and discussed how to embrace self-compassion and understanding when making the choice to get divorced.

In this engaging episode, I had the privilege of chatting with the talented Ethan Philbrick, a cellist, artist, and writer. Ethan shares his heartfelt divorce story and the inspiring initiative, The Gay Divorcees, honoring the narratives of queer divorcees through music. Together, we explore the culture surrounding queer divorce and its significance in our country. Join us as we celebrate the transformative power of making the choice to get divorced, shaping dynamic individuals, and finding empowerment in life-altering choices. Tune in to be inspired by The Gay Divorcees' journey and the importance of community after divorce.

Discover a captivating episode of the Queer Divorce Club podcast featuring Ash, a Certified Somatic Practitioner, and her wife Dawn, a relationship coach trained in a psychobiological approach to couples therapy. Join us as we delve into their inspiring journey of healing and love, from divorcees to a happily married couple. Explore their remarkable story of transformation and learn invaluable tips on healing, navigating new relationships beyond romance, and the profound impact of attachment styles on your healing journey and connections. Tune in now to gain insights that will empower your own healing and relationships.

Discover a powerful journey of healing and growth in this episode of the Queer Divorce Club. Join Tera, as she sits down with the incredible Kate Herald Browne, who candidly shares her personal story of divorce, remarriage, and co-parenting.

In this heartfelt conversation, Kate and Tera delve into the intricacies of queer divorce, exploring its unique dynamics and shedding light on the differences between queer and heteronormative divorces. Together, they uncover the transformative power of repairing relationships with ex-partners and offer invaluable insights into navigating the challenging "murky middle" of divorce.

Get ready to be inspired as we piece together the puzzle of divorce and self-healing, leaving you with a sense of awe and newfound understanding.

In this episode of the Queer Divorce Club, I had the pleasure of chatting with Rachel Kieras, a financial expert with certification in the divorce process. Together, we dive deep into the crucial topic of managing finances during divorce. Rachel breaks down the essential financial aspects to focus on and provides a step-by-step approach to navigate the complexities of the process.

Beyond the logistics, Rachel emphasizes the emotional aspects of finances and the importance of building a supportive team during divorce. We explore budgeting strategies and setting yourself up for a prosperous life post-divorce. This episode is a valuable resource for anyone contemplating divorce or currently undergoing the legal process. Even if you've already finalized your divorce, Rachel shares insightful advice on budgeting and saving that you won't want to miss.

In this episode of the Queer Divorce Club, we delve into the intricacies of buying and selling a home during the divorce process. Our special guests, Michelle Coulier and Miguel Ruiz-Santos, are experts in real estate and lending tailored to the LGBTQIA+ community. From understanding the legal aspects to ensuring financial stability, we cover it all. Join us as we explore strategies for equitable property division, negotiation with your ex-spouse, and working with understanding lenders. This episode provides essential information and support to help you confidently navigate this complex journey and create a secure future. Stay tuned and get one step closer to making informed decisions in your divorce.

Discover valuable insights on mediation and its unique dynamics within queer divorce in this episode of the Queer Divorce Club Podcast. Join us as Paul Schwen, a seasoned family law attorney and mediator, shares his expertise, highlighting the differences between queer and straight divorces. Gain a deeper understanding of how mediation can lay the foundation for a positive post-divorce relationship, as Paul opens up about his own divorce experience and the influence of his ex-wife's coming out. Tune in for empowering guidance and illuminating perspectives on navigating the complexities of mediation in the context of queer divorces.

In this episode of the Queer Divorce Club podcast, Candace Lefke shares her remarkable journey of breaking up with her husband, navigating the healing process, and the profound impact of embodiment on her personal growth. With raw vulnerability and unwavering resilience, Candace delves into the complexities of her story, revealing the invaluable lessons learned along the way. Join us as we explore how Candace embraced the power of embodiment to nurture her mind, body, and soul, and discover the transformative potential it holds for healing and self-discovery.

In this episode of the Queer Divorce Club podcast, Tera talks with Devon Gibby. Devon, a proud gay dad, takes us on a transformative journey that began a decade ago when he courageously started blogging about his life as a closeted Mormon married to a woman. In this deeply personal episode, Devon shares his experiences of navigating the complexities of faith, sexuality, and divorce, ultimately emerging as a passionate advocate for co-parenting.